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A guide: Should You Send Christian Christmas Cards or Secular Holiday Cards?

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Candle with lights in background - should you send Christian cards at Christmas?

If you are Christian but not sure whether to send religious Christmas cards this holiday season, then this guide is for you. There is no right or wrong answer, but these tips will help select the best possible card for each recipient.

Is the recipient definitely of a different faith?

If your recipient is Muslim, Hindu, Jewish or another religion, they may find an overtly Christian Christmas card disrespectful. A “holiday” card with seasonal greetings may be a better choice for these recipients. On the other hand, just because they’re not Christian doesn’t mean you’re not. For example, if you received a “Happy Hanukkah” card from Jewish friends, would you be offended? Probably not, because you know that Hanukkah holds religious meaning to them even if it doesn’t to you. So if you feel OK about it you can consider sending a Christian card, but first think about how the recipient would feel receiving it before making any decision. If in any doubt at all, play it safe with a holiday card.

Unsure if your recipient is Christian or atheist?

For married recipients, try this simple test: if the couple got married in a church of any Christian denomination, then you can safely send them a religious card. If they’re religious enough to get married there, they’re religious enough to receive a Christian Christmas card.

Are you sending to a business associate?

For business associates, a secular “holiday card” may be more appropriate (unless you know that they are Christian).


There is no right or wrong answer as to what kind of Christmas card to send. This is not a case of suggesting you should always (or never) send religious Christmas cards. Instead, take into account both your views and the recipient’s:

  • One solution is to send Christmas cards to those who you know are Christian and generic holiday cards to those who are of another religion.
  • On the other hand, if all your recipients know that you yourself are Christian, you might feel comfortable sending entirely religious themed cards.
  • Perhaps most thoughtfully of all, consider how each recipient would feel receiving a religious card first before making your choice for that person. If in doubt, ask! Most people would be flattered that you’d like to know their preference for this.

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